Social connection is not abstract well-being: The WHO treats loneliness and social isolation as a global health issue with effects on physical health, mental health, and quality of life.
WHO Commission, 2025Relationship assistant
A Thoughtful Memory for Your Relationships
Tell Iara naturally what is happening with the people in your life. It keeps the details, suggests next steps when they make sense, and only suggests reminders when a moment truly needs attention.
No automatic pressure: you control reminders and suggestions.
Relationships Don't Fit in a To-Do List
You do not forget people because you do not care. Life scatters the details: an important conversation, a move to a new city, a hard season, a promise to send a message later.
The problem is that ordinary tools treat everything the same. A person becomes a contact. A note becomes a task. A delicate detail shows up at the wrong time.
Details get lost
You remember that something mattered, but not exactly what happened, when to bring it back up, or what care to take.
Reminders become pressure
Not every person mentioned needs to become a recurring obligation.
Sensitive topics need care
Some memories can guide tone without appearing in a suggestion.
Corrections should be simple
If Iara misunderstood, you adjust it in natural language.
The Problem Is Bigger Than Organization
Important relationships weaken when contact fades, dates slip by, and small chances to show care disappear into the routine.
Relationships need contact to avoid weakening. In a study of personal social networks, Roberts and Dunbar observe that communication helps keep relationships from decaying over time, and that time since last contact tracks with emotional closeness.
Roberts and Dunbar, 2011A simple message is often more welcome than the sender expects. In a series of experiments, people who initiated contact underestimated how much recipients would appreciate the gesture.
American Psychological Association, 2022Memory
Save to memory
Suggestion
Suggest when it makes sense
You can pause, correct, or undo future suggestions.
Keep the Details Without More Pressure
Iara separates memory from obligation. You can tell it stories, dates, preferences, boundaries, and important moments in natural language. Then it helps decide what deserves a suggestion, reminder, preparation, or silence.
You can mention someone without creating a reminder.
Suggestions appear when they fit the moment and your boundaries.
Sensitive details can guide tone without being exposed.
You can pause, correct, or undo future suggestions.
Request early access
No automatic pressure: you control reminders and suggestions.
How Iara Works
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Tell it naturally
Had dinner with Ana. She started a new job and seems excited but tired.
Had dinner with Ana. She started a new job and seems excited but tired.
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Iara keeps the details
It keeps the original note and identifies people, relationships, facts, preferences, boundaries, and sensitive topics.
People, relationships, facts, preferences, boundaries, and sensitive topics.
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It suggests with care
When it makes sense, Iara can suggest a simple message, remember a date, help you prepare, or suggest nothing.
Suggestion
Send a simple message, remember a date, help you prepare, or suggest nothing.
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You correct it whenever you want
Say "not that Pedro," "do not remind me about this," "better not suggest anything," or "undo." Iara adjusts future suggestions.
Correction
Not that Pedro. Do not remind me about this. Better not suggest anything. Undo.
Care Also Means Knowing What Not to Do
Iara does not send messages for you.
People mentioned in stories do not automatically become obligations.
Sensitive details can guide timing and tone without appearing in proactive suggestions.
When something is not possible yet, Iara says so clearly.
You can pause, correct, undo, and decide when something should not become a reminder.
Start Saving What Should Not Get Lost
Tell Iara what happened, keep the important details, and get help acting with more care when the moment calls for it.
Request early accessEarly access. No automatic messages. You stay in control.
Frequently asked questions
"Is Iara a CRM?"
No. Iara is a personal relationship memory. It is built to keep important details, support careful follow-up, and suggest small moments of attention, not pipelines or sales workflows.
"Does Iara send messages for me?"
No. Iara can help you prepare, remember, and choose what to say. You decide whether to act and you send the message yourself.
"Does every person I mention become a reminder?"
No. You can mention someone without creating a task. Iara is designed to separate memory from obligation.
"Can I correct Iara when it misunderstands?"
Yes. Use natural language, such as "not that Pedro," "do not remind me about this," "better not suggest anything," or "undo." Iara adjusts future suggestions from there.
"What happens with sensitive details?"
Sensitive details can be saved without becoming reminders. They can guide timing and tone without being exposed in proactive suggestions.
"What is included in early access?"
Early access is for shaping the core memory and suggestion flow with real use. Some features may be limited, and Iara should say clearly when something is not possible yet.
"Will my contacts know I am using Iara?"
No. Iara is for your private notes and reminders. It does not contact people for you.
"Do you sell my relationship data?"
No. Relationship notes are personal. The product is being built around private memory and user control, not selling contact data.